When You Actually Need a Registered Dietitian, Not More Therapy

I get this question a lot, and honestly, I think I know why. For years, people have been going to their doctors, getting told "you have IBS, sorry, there’s nothing more we can do for you - here’s a pamphlet," and then somehow ending up in therapy when what they really need is education around their particular condition and how to eat appropriately for it.

Don't get me wrong - I'm a therapist, and I love the work I do. But sometimes people end up in my office talking about stress when what they actually need is medical care. They just haven't gotten to the right medical professional yet.

The Pattern I See Over and Over

Here's what typically happens: Someone has been dealing with GI symptoms. They go to their doctor. The doctor says something like "I think you have anxiety" because they can't figure out what's wrong. The person ends up in therapy.

But the thing is - if the stress and anxiety in your life is coming specifically from your physical symptoms, you might be better off starting with a registered dietitian who understands the nuances of conditions like IBS.

That doesn't mean therapy isn't valuable. Going years being told "there's nothing we can do for you" absolutely creates fear, anxiety, and stress. But you shouldn't have to choose between getting help for your physical symptoms and addressing the emotional impact.

Clear Signs You Need a Dietitian

If you are struggling with GI symptoms or just nourishing your body, period - reach out to a dietitian. Here are some specific situations where this is especially important:

You're avoiding foods because of physical symptoms - bloating, pain, diarrhea, nausea, vomiting, constipation. This isn't about wanting to look a certain way; this is about your body having real reactions to food.

You're overwhelmed by information online - You don't know whether to follow the diet that Aunt Susie is on, you've read conflicting advice, and you're more confused than when you started.

Your doctor handed you a list of foods to avoid - Like when GI doctors just give you the low FODMAP diet without any guidance on what you actually CAN eat. You're left staring at this long list of "no" foods thinking "what the heck do I eat?"

You're down to only a few "safe" foods - And that lack of diversity in your diet is actually causing worse GI symptoms, even though you're not eating anything on the "forbidden" list.

You can't eat in social settings - Whether it's at work, with family, dining out, or traveling, you don't know how to navigate food situations and feel confident.

We're Not Just Here for Chronic Illness

Here's something important: registered dietitians aren't just here for chronic illness support. They’re also here for regular day-to-day questions. They want to provide you with sound nutrition advice that isn't impacted by diet culture and fad diets.

If you're struggling with any aspect of nourishing your body, that's reason enough to reach out.

What to Look For

Not all dietitians are created equal when it comes to understanding the intersection of eating disorders and GI conditions. You want someone who:

  • Won't tell you "it's all in your head"

  • Understands that your symptoms are real and valid

  • Won't just hand you another elimination diet

  • Knows how to work with the complexity of chronic conditions

  • Can help you expand your diet while respecting your body's actual limitations

The Difference This Makes

I often recommend dietetics to clients in addition or instead of our therapy sessions because you deserve education around your condition and practical strategies for managing it. And I also often see people who've been dismissed by medical professionals for so long that they do need support processing that experience.

The ideal situation is having a team approach where your dietitian understands your physical needs and can give you practical nutrition strategies, while your therapist can help you work through the fear, anxiety, and trauma that often comes with having a chronic condition, especially when the nutrition education alone isn’t minimizing the fear.

Finding the Right Person

Look for dietitians who specialize in chronic conditions, GI disorders, or the intersection of eating disorders and medical conditions. They should understand that your situation is nuanced and individualistic - not just a matter of following a generic protocol.

The goal is finding someone who will meet you where you are, believe your experience, and give you actual tools that work for your unique situation. You deserve care that doesn't make you choose between managing your symptoms and having a healthy relationship with food.

Your symptoms are real. Your struggle is valid. And there is help available that gets how complex this all is.

Check out the dietitians who co-wrote The Comprehensive Nutrition Therapy for Co-Occurring Gastrointestinal & Eating Disorders: the EDGI Training Project with Samina!

Samina Qureshi is a Registered Dietitian and founder of Wholesome Start, a virtual practice specializing in digestive health. She helps clients improve their well-being through a holistic approach rooted in Intuitive Eating and HAES®. Learn more at wholesomestart.com/dietitian-samina.

This blog post is based on an interview with Samina Qureshi, registered dietitian, on The Chronic Illness Therapist Podcast. For more resources on navigating healthcare challenges, subscribe to our newsletter and follow us on social media.

Disclaimer: Everything we discuss here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.

Listen to Samina’s interview with me, Destiny Davis, on Ep 96: When You Actually Need a Registered Dietitian, Not More Therapy

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Podcast cover art for "The Chronic Illness Therapist Podcast" with Destiny Davis, LPC CRC

Listen to Samina’s interview with me, Destiny Davis, on Ep 96: When You Actually Need a Registered Dietitian, Not More Therapy

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Listen on Spotify

Samina Qureshi, registered dietitian and founder, smiling wearing a beige buttoned cardigan

Samina Qureshi, RD, is the founder of Wholesome Start, a virtual practice specializing in digestive health. Trained at the University of Texas at Austin, she helps clients care for their health through a holistic approach rooted in Intuitive Eating, HAES®, and respect for body diversity.


Destiny Davis, LPC CRC, smiling in a pink sweater standing outdoors with crossed arms

Meet Destiny - The host of The Chronic Illness Therapist Podcast and a licensed mental health therapist in the states of Georgia and Florida. Destiny offers traditional 50-minute therapy sessions as well as therapy intensives and monthly online workshops for the chronic illness community.

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